A number, quietly stolen
It was sitting in the church WhatsApp group. Ebuka took it, and messaged her the same day — no introduction, no mutual friend to hide behind. Nothing visible yet, and no way of knowing.
28 · 11 · 2026 · Lagos, Nigeria
Okonkwo Amarachi Rita & Ekwugha Franklin Ebuka
Why Kamar
They overlap on a single letter and give you Kamar — which, we later found out, is the Arabic word for moon. So this is Moon Tales: two names folded into one, and a light that has been getting fuller since January 2025.
On the night of the wedding the moon will be a waxing gibbous — about 93% full. Two days short, and near enough.
Four dates
Told in phases, because the name asked for it. Each date is the moon a little fuller than the last.
It was sitting in the church WhatsApp group. Ebuka took it, and messaged her the same day — no introduction, no mutual friend to hide behind. Nothing visible yet, and no way of knowing.
Five months of talking, and then a plain question that gave the talking a name. The first sliver of light — and from here, the only direction it goes is fuller.
She had been told it was a group sleepover at the beach. It was — right up until it wasn't. A beach with no road to it, the water going out and coming back, and a question she had no idea was coming. Half lit, half still ahead.
Our Lady Seat of Wisdom at ten in the morning, Canary World by two in the afternoon, and everyone we love in between.
Saturday 28 November 2026
Both in Lagos, about forty minutes apart. Come to one or come to both — we would rather you came to both.
The ceremony
Arrive by 9:30 AM
Open in Maps →The reception
Arrive by 1:30 PM
Open in Maps →At the reception door
Colours of the day
Wear any of the three. Gold is welcome as an accent — it is all over the invitation, so it is fair game.
#KamarTales2026
Shot across three looks — traditional, vintage, and studio. Tag anything you take on the day with the hashtag and it finds its way to us.











By Saturday 21 November 2026
Use the phone number your invitation was sent to — that is how we find you on the guest list. Confirm, and your invitation with its QR code appears straight away.
Gifts
Truly — turning up is more than enough. But for those who insist, here we are.
The bride
First Bank of Nigeria
3144056612
The groom
First Bank of Nigeria
3056103978
Good to know
Your seat count is fixed when we add you to the guest list, and it shows in the RSVP form — it isn't something you can change. If it says two, bring one person. If you genuinely need more, call us rather than turning up and hoping.
The church, yes — that door is open to everyone. The reception, no. Our stewards check every guest against the list at Canary World, and without an RSVP or a physical access card you will be turned away. Please RSVP by 21 November.
No. Show it on your phone. Print it only if you would rather not fumble with a screen at the door.
9:30 AM for the church — it starts at ten and Lagos traffic is Lagos traffic. Doors at Canary World open at 1:30 PM.
This one is an adults-only celebration — no children, please. We know that means arranging something at home, and we are grateful to you for it.
There is parking at both venues. Stewards in sage green will point you in.